It's in mens DNA

Butterfly said:
Well, if she plays the first move right, you might not recognize it as the first move.
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Exactly, Butterfly.
He has no idea of the wiles of women and of their power to exercise control.

He also does not understand that we can be very picky about when and how to use our powers. My super power is the Stop Right There death stare which has helped me to deselect unwanted advances.
 

Well, I dunno — it's been decades since I was single.

But, perhaps, a kind of attracting without being obvious in any way. Being inviting without being obvious.

I think this happens all the time. You don't have to march up to a man and bonk him over the head to get his attention, right?
 
Devi said:
Well, I dunno — it's been decades since I was single.

But, perhaps, a kind of attracting without being obvious in any way. Being inviting without being obvious.

I think this happens all the time. You don't have to march up to a man and bonk him over the head to get his attention, right?
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You do if you want him to clean the bathroom and ensuite.
I find hints and being inviting is useless so gentlemen, if you want to win over the modern woman, instead of beating your chests and wrestling other suitors to the ground why not try chivalry and a willingness to share cleaning duties?
 
senior chef said:
You are one lucky fellow.
It has happened to me , but rarely.

I think it also has a lot to do with how desirable any particular man is to women.
A guy who owns a house is more desirable than one who does not.
A guy who is rich, is more desirable that one who is not.
A guy who is very handsome is more desirable than one who is not.
The list is almost endless.

In any event, we have gotten waaay off track from the original post. Read post #1
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Not all woman are attracted to men who have their own homes, or are rich. The man I married didn't have a great job when I met him, and he was renting. I found him attractive, but what attracted me more than anything he had or didn't have, was that we were mutually attracted enough to marry. He has since gotten much better off financially and we own a house together.
 
carouselsilver said:
Not all woman are attracted to men who have their own homes, or are rich. The man I married didn't have a great job when I met him, and he was renting. I found him attractive, but what attracted me more than anything he had or didn't have, was that we were mutually attracted enough to marry. He has since gotten much better off financially and we own a house together.
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I don't recall saying that ALL women are attracted to men with homes or are wealthy. Nor do I believe that. However, plenty of women are attracted to those things.

I remember a female friend of mine who had was interested in a particular guy. They had a date or two and the very first thing she did was to drive by his house to check it out.

There can be absolutely no question that if a man has wealth, he suddenly becomes attractive to a wide variety of stunningly beautiful women. Perhaps the most famous situation is of Hugh Hefner. In fact, he was so attractive to young beautiful women that he had 3, yes, repeat 3, girlfriends living with him at the SAME TIME.
At age 90, Hugh Hefner with his 3 live-in girlfriends.
 

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Hugh Hefner's women weren't attracted to him because of his wealth or even attracted to him at all. They were paid prostitutes. There will always be a certain type of "stunningly beautiful" (surgically implanted and hairdresser bleached) women who will pretend to love any man, however, dumb, ugly or poor, if he has the price they're asking.
 
Della said:
Hugh Hefner's women weren't attracted to him because of his wealth or even attracted to him at all. They were paid prostitutes. There will always be a certain type of "stunningly beautiful" (surgically implanted and hairdresser bleached) women who will pretend to love any man, however, dumb, ugly or poor, if he has the price they're asking.
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Exactly!!!
 
oldman said:
I have to respectfully disagree with the highlighted section of the post. I stand 6'4" and when I would walk through the airport dressed in uniform, especially in the evenings for whatever reason, over the years, I had several women approach me while in the airport. Keep in mind, I flew for 33 years, so I did see a lot of women in that timespan.

My best and favorite lady was Estelle Bennett of the Ronettes. She walked up to me and asked me if the wings on my coat were real gold. One thing led to another and the next thing I knew we were having coffee at a donut shop in the terminal named The Donut Hole. She will never be forgotten. So lively, interesting and pretty, don't you think? BTW, she has since become deceased.

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You must have looked très beau in your uniform oldman!!

 
Della said:
Hugh Hefner's women weren't attracted to him because of his wealth or even attracted to him at all. They were paid prostitutes. There will always be a certain type of "stunningly beautiful" (surgically implanted and hairdresser bleached) women who will pretend to love any man, however, dumb, ugly or poor, if he has the price they're asking.
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And yet you say that like it's a bad thing....:unsure:
 
I worked in a state office which had mixed workers, (male and female) mostly typists. some really nice women. But I had a lot of turn downs in past years, women dont date co workers, have a boy friend, etc., so I never asked any of the gals for a date...One had an eye on me that I never knew, she never spoke to me, never said hi, or made any advance. After she was married and we were having a conversation I mentioned that I would like to try marriage she said well heck I was sitting right there all the time, (this to mean she was available and willing, but since she never spoke how was I to know). I have worked in many offices as a typist (because I type at 80wpm) offices full of wimmin, single, married or in a relation and I dont dare ask or I will be reported for harrasement. (and oh yes I have been reported and told to keep to myself)
 
Della said:
Hugh Hefner's women weren't attracted to him because of his wealth or even attracted to him at all. They were paid prostitutes. There will always be a certain type of "stunningly beautiful" (surgically implanted and hairdresser bleached) women who will pretend to love any man, however, dumb, ugly or poor, if he has the price they're asking.
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Tisk. Tisk Tisk. Sounds like jealousy to me.

This reminds me of something Hugh Hefner once said in reply to a question about why so many young beautiful women were attracted to him. He said, "When a woman wants to climb into my bed, I don't spend much time wondering why."
 
Shero said:
You must have looked très beau in your uniform oldman!!

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I may have overstated my post a bit. What I was trying to say was that men and women in a classy uniform looks very professional and to some degree, it makes the person wearing it look a bit more classy. Personally, I never liked wearing the United coat through the airport. I prefer wearing a flight jacket, which is taboo at United.
 
Warrigal said:
Sorry, secret women's business is not given to male members of the tribe. You have your own secret men's business that is kept from us. That's only fair.
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Lotsa these comments reminds me of something I put together some years ago

Wimin

The most mysterious beings of our planet

I found out long ago, about sixty years or so, that gaining favor with the finer gender of our specie is not necessarily in my best interest.
Whole different frequency
Wired different
Fiber optic vs 9 gauge single conductor
Fascinating, mystical, attractive, you bet
Sensitivities I’d never remotely considered
But, hanging with a group of ladies?

Can’t

Mentally; exhausting

Socially; this ogre doesn’t stand a chance

Spiritually; beyond any reach I may have thought I had

Physically; like looking into the sun, can go blind if obsessing too long

Gaining favor?
Whimsical touches
Nothing of depth
Any more than that and I find myself precariously dangling off a mental precipice

I can do one, maybe two per sitting
and that is mostly because they sense my discomfort to the point of putting forth effort to discuss what I’m interested in
I’ve learned to pick up on this and placate for a bit, then find a way to excuse myself

I don’t avoid ladies, but have learned not to seek them out
It’s what shops are for

I’ve been fortunate

My lady has put up with me for half a century

When I become too much and I (for some unknown reason) anger her,
I found placing my calloused hand on the small of her back will still cause her to flinch
….and she begrudgingly forgives me

We have had this tryst, this romance that has yet to fade

She’s plenty for me

Forever


So, here I remain
Baffled, yet attracted at the mysteries, complexities
A sentry
A defender
A protector
A willing grunt

Keeping the fire

best I can



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Della said:
LOL I'm hairdresser bleached myself. At about age 50 I went from petite brunette to, voluptuous blonde almost overnight. I'm just trying to cast a little shade on Senior Chef's definition of stunningly beautiful
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In answer to your sneering remark, one of the things that I find stunningly beautiful is femininity. Even ultra feminine.

When a woman tries to "out-man" any man, that is the polar opposite of femininity and extremely unattractive.

Now, personally, I'm not particularly attracted to buxom blondes, but I do recognize that most men do find them attractive.

That being said, I'm reminded of what Sean Connery once said on The Tonight Show when asked if he like bleached blondes. Connery's reply ? "As long as the collars and cuffs match:.
 
senior chef said:
When a woman tries to "out-man" any man, that is the polar opposite of femininity and extremely unattractive.
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Gotta respectfully disagree with you on this point. My wife can be as sexy as the next, but, she really shines when you put her behind the wheel. Best of both worlds. JMHO. :)
Best time's was when track had to scramble to find a "Trophy King" rather than a queen. (y):)

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