Wonderful Warri! Wish all guys were like you Underock. Even though my career is no longer considered a 'soft' science, the prejudice was, and still is there. To his discredit, recently, my doctor's locum, well aware of my education, sneered at the type of easy
courses such as psych 101 and all the other soft stuff I studied, re the hard chem
and math courses he took. He had no idea what my course load entailed. He just assumed. I stared him in the eye, and suggested he try attending university while experiencing PTSD. That shut him up. I told him, you can't medicate, because it fuzzes your brain,
and affects your concentration. So you live in a split
screen world. He was still competing, surprised I graduated from a good university, going on about his marks. I got pissed--not to my credit, but this was during the worst of the tooth infection wars, where he also insinuated my childhood dental abuse may
have been due to me
being a hot fifteen year old. Not that it matters, I was eight. I blasted him. Apparently his dad was a dentist? . Anyway, I dug up my final documents for my degrees, including Doctorate, and shared them with him on my last visit. Class whore that he is,
his treatment of me changed. I can't believe your marks he said. I smiled and said, my intelligence has always been considerably larger than my dress size, that I had never found breasts to be a barrier to brilliance.
. I did not tell him I am not brilliant, just very focused, and was tutored in statistics four nights a week for nine months before I had to take the course. Lol. PS, hard science courses were also required as I progressed along my chosen path. Were they
more difficult? except for stats, no. Just different. Ultimately, far less relevant to a career which relies far more on empathy
Than wave curve analysis, or rat psychology, and where service dogs often offer more healing than I ever could. Lol. Sometimes, male military refuse to work with a woman, cuz I won't understand, usually their friends, former clients suggest
they give me a chance. Usually it works out. Colleagues, ninety percent positive. When I started out, perhaps fifty percent.
we've come a long way baby!