To answer your question, "Is abortion okay if a state allows it"...It depends. It's okay for those who believe it's okay but not okay for those who do not believe it's okay and yet are forced to support abortion while funding it with their taxes. It makes them feel as if they are being forced to say it's okay since they pay for it.
This divided choice of opinion has gone on for 50 years with NO resolution. Finally, there is a resolution not yet on the table...each state will decide pro-life or pro-abortion. The pro-abortion people win bigger because they can still choose to abort their babies in any state that allows it.
Pro-life people, who live in a state where abortion is allowed, must move if they don't want their taxes to support something they strongly don't believe in. Are you saying you want your way or the highway without any give and take?