Yes, true love and devotion can be a shock to so many men. So many men think sex is the end all of true love. They fail to see the everyday little things, a lovely hot dinner, a foot or back massage, clean laundry and fresh sheets on the bed, a cup of tea or soup when you have a quesy stomach, bringing the ice pack or heating pad when you have an ache. So many little things that confirms she adores you, wants you to be happy, does not want you to feel bad or worry. You have that, and you know what, YOU HAVE EARNED IT BY YOUR LOVE AND DEVOTION TO HER!!