Run-in with a jerk

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feywon said:
Extremely and he is very lucky this is not an in person conversation, and also that i won't resort to laying out his issues for all to see because i enjoy most of the people here too much to something that might get me suspended or banned. Giving this fella his come-uppance isn't worth losing the rest of you!
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My, oh my , but you are an aggressive female aren't you. Your issues are getting the best of you.
 
feywon said:
BTW, i have much respect for the way some of the other men have challenged the OP and debated with him. And the difference in how he responds to men who disagree with him compared to how he responds to women who take issue with him reveals his 'character' alone.
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There is a big difference between how the men have responded and how some of the women have responded. The men have not made malicious remarks.
 
senior chef said:
My, oh my , but you are an aggressive female aren't you. Your issues are getting the best of you.
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No, i'm an assertive, independent female and that is why you are not simply totally ignoring my comments because you're futilely trying to put me 'in my place'. Because you don't like women who think for themselves. Even tho some people believe oft repeated lies, that still doesn't make them true.

You don't seem to understand that not everybody buys your representation of yourself. You also don't understand that some people are strong enough human beings emotionally that we are highly selective about who's opinions matter to us. Anyone who thinks you're right about me isn't perceptive enough for me care about their opinion.
 
feywon said:
No, i'm an assertive, independent female and that is why you are not simply totally ignoring my comments because you're futilely trying to put me 'in my place'. Because you don't like women who think for themselves. Even tho some people believe oft repeated lies, that still doesn't make them true.

You don't seem to understand that not everybody buys your representation of yourself. You also don't understand that some people are strong enough human beings emotionally that we are highly selective about who's opinions matter to us. Anyone who thinks you're right about me isn't perceptive enough for me care about their opinion.
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Assertive you say ? I say you were looking for a fight from the very beginning.
 
senior chef said:
There is a big difference between how the men have responded and how some of the women have responded. The men have not made malicious remarks.
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:LOL: 😆🤣

You're that fragile? That anything any of us said wounds you to the point of calling it malicious to rationalize not even addressing valid points made by some of us--only finding things you think you can use to belittle and condescend to us? You poor thing! i'll leave alone.
 
fuzzybuddy said:
And the reason you wouldn't move your hand cart that was "partially" blocking the aisle, to let this person pass ,was ? If a person has to "edge by" your cart, it does sound like an obstruction in the aisle.
If you got on the bus dragging your cart, and someone refused to move their cart that was "partially" blocking the aisle, you would have what?
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You would have a jumbled up mess. Around here, that is quite common. I can't tell you how many times I've had to stand up in the aisle because I could not get passed someone's heavy cart. There have even been times when the bus driver has told me to enter via the rear exit because the aisle was packed with carts and people.
In the case I first posted, the bus was only 1/2 full, and my cart was only blocking part of the aisle. Plenty of room for anybody who wished to move passed me. It was not until that young guy yelled at me did trouble start.
 
feywon said:
:LOL: 😆🤣

You're that fragile? That anything any of us said wounds you to the point of calling it malicious to rationalize not even addressing valid points made by some of us--only finding things you think you can use to belittle and condescend to us? You poor thing! i'll leave alone.
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I don't recall saying I was "wounded". I said malicious remarks meant to attack me.
Moreover, you may THINK your points are valid, but I assure you that they were made to harass me. In any event, I forgive you and I understand you have issues with men.
 
A few years back, I walked into an auto parts store looking for a new PCV valve for my Envoy. I stand 6’4” and weigh in at about 210# right now, so I am no little man. As I walked up the aisle to look for my part, another guy about 5’10” and wearing a t-shirt with a denim vest stood in my way andI asked him to move twice. Finally, I asked him if he was deaf. He turned his back to me and on the back of his vest were the words, “Hell’s Angels.” I became rigid for a moment, but finally awoke and told him to have a nice day and then left the store.
 
oldman said:
A few years back, I walked into an auto parts store looking for a new PCV valve for my Envoy. I stand 6’4” and weigh in at about 210# right now, so I am no little man. As I walked up the aisle to look for my part, another guy about 5’10” and wearing a t-shirt with a denim vest stood in my way andI asked him to move twice. Finally, I asked him if he was deaf. He turned his back to me and on the back of his vest were the words, “Hell’s Angels.” I became rigid for a moment, but finally awoke and told him to have a nice day and then left the store.
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Smart choice. Hell's Angels are not people to mess with.
 
senior chef said:
I don't recall saying I was "wounded". I said malicious remarks meant to attack me.
Moreover, you may THINK your points are valid, but I assure you that they were made to harass me. In any event, I forgive you and I understand you have issues with men.
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You truly cannot see that this is patronising? Women don't react well to being patronised by men who presume to know what they are thinking.
 
Senior chef, I hope your cooking is better than your spelling. I've already pointed out that it isn't "room to walk passed;" it's "room to walk past." But you're still continuing to use the wrong spelling, and it's very confusing to even read what you are saying.

Passed: The past tense of Pass. It's a verb.
Example: An hour passed, and then he finally called.

Past: Two meanings, adjective and adverb

1. Adjective: The entity of time before and up to the present
Example: The news has been horrible for the past month.

2. Adverb: Walking or moving past means you are moving near the person and going to the other side of them.

Whatever point you think you are making is getting lost in your spelling confusion.
 
  • The court heard only one side of story
  • Witness feywon hit the nail about chest thumping. In other words, the Tarzan effect.
  • Known fact: Tarzan effect, affects some men past their prime and needing to prove something.
  • Antidote for Tarzan effect, buy punching bag and use at home before leaving home.
  • The verdict is clear: the story is paper thin.
  • Judgement for the plaintiff: urgent anger management classes, classes in humility, classes in telling the truth.
court notes: the Plaintiff failed in his attempt to spread hate towards Muslims in another thread. Plaintiff is trying to spread hate against young black men by starting this thread by citing imaginary story and again FAILED!
 
feywon said:
Extremely and he is very lucky this is not an in person conversation, and also that i won't resort to laying out his issues for all to see because i enjoy most of the people here too much to something that might get me suspended or banned. Giving this fella his come-uppance isn't worth losing the rest of you!
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I wouldn't worry about that. You did just fine in Post #146. 😊
 
senior chef said:
Clearly, you don't know what it is like on our city buses, here at the Mexican border. More often than not, people are partially or even completely blocking the aisle. It is quite normal. So, do you now suggest that they are all passive aggressive thugs ? Or is only me ?
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Yeah.....Dem people's always up in der doin' dat stuff. :ROFLMAO:
 
Knight said:
We don't know if the black man had any physical difficulties do we? We don't know if anyone else did all we know is the man was much smaller. We do know we only have one side of an encounter that could easily turned bad for not only the chef & the other bus passenger but anyone seated close to them.

We do know the back of the bus had seats open that could have been used. Sitting back there would eliminate partially blocking the aisle. I'm pretty sure getting off the bus is just as easy from the back seat as it is from the others.

What does it matter the color of the man's skin? If it was courteous to move for a handicapped why not extend that same courtesy to another bus rider? Or is it OK to be the kind of person that displays to the lack of civility to others no matter their ethnicity?
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There are several things wrong with the above post.

1.) "We don't know if the black man had any physical difficulties do we?". Interesting how the black man has become the victim , when it fact he initiated the confrontation. Physical difficulties ? Hmm. Perhaps he was on crutches? Better still, why not make him nearly blind ?

2.) "We do know that the back of the bus had seats open that could have been used". Oh, really ? Obviously you have no knowledge, what-so-ever, about San Diego busses. Every single one of them , that I have ever used, have 3 steps UP, in order to get to the rear most portion of the bus. I was as far back in the bus as I could get. I could not have lifted my food laden cart up those stairs.
 
oldman said:
A few years back, I walked into an auto parts store looking for a new PCV valve for my Envoy. I stand 6’4” and weigh in at about 210# right now, so I am no little man. As I walked up the aisle to look for my part, another guy about 5’10” and wearing a t-shirt with a denim vest stood in my way andI asked him to move twice. Finally, I asked him if he was deaf. He turned his back to me and on the back of his vest were the words, “Hell’s Angels.” I became rigid for a moment, but finally awoke and told him to have a nice day and then left the store.
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As tempting as it would have been to jab your fist into his mug and drop him like a bad habit...sometimes it's best to let-it-go and exit stage right.

Seriously, outlaw bikers are 7th graders trapped in [big] adult bodies. They are all testosterone and ZERO intellect...best to steer clear of 'em.
 
Nathan said:
As tempting as it would have been to jab your fist into his mug and drop him like a bad habit...sometimes it's best to let-it-go and exit stage right.

Seriously, outlaw bikers are 7th graders trapped in [big] adult bodies. They are all testosterone and ZERO intellect...best to steer clear of 'em.
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When I got into my truck and was able to drive away without being followed, I knew the Lord was with me on that day. Like I wrote earlier, you don't just take one of them on. They fight in packs.
 
senior chef said:
There are several things wrong with the above post.

1.) "We don't know if the black man had any physical difficulties do we?". Interesting how the black man has become the victim , when it fact he initiated the confrontation. Physical difficulties ? Hmm. Perhaps he was on crutches? Better still, why not make him nearly blind ?

2.) "We do know that the back of the bus had seats open that could have been used". Oh, really ? Obviously you have no knowledge, what-so-ever, about San Diego busses. Every single one of them , that I have ever used, have 3 steps UP, in order to get to the rear most portion of the bus. I was as far back in the bus as I could get. I could not have lifted my food laden cart up those stairs.
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#1 Still don't know if the man had any handicap that wasn't visible. Not everyone that had joint replacement walks or moves awkwardly but can have difficulty twisting in a confined space. Legally blind not visible but makes navigating obstacles difficult.

#2. You are right I don't know the configuration of San Diego busses. From what you describe there are no steps to get in but after you get in there are steps to access seating. Interesting that you describe yourself as large & capable of putting a smaller man in the hospital, but don't have the strength to drag a cart up 3 steps.
 
Knight said:
#1 Still don't know if the man had any handicap that wasn't visible. Not everyone that had joint replacement walks or moves awkwardly but can have difficulty twisting in a confined space. Legally blind not visible but makes navigating obstacles difficult.

#2. You are right I don't know the configuration of San Diego busses. From what you describe there are no steps to get in but after you get in there are steps to access seating. Interesting that you describe yourself as large & capable of putting a smaller man in the hospital, but don't have the strength to drag a cart up 3 steps.
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