As a man, I don't worry too much about needs. I cook my own meals, clean dishes, do my own laundry, more my yard etc etc. I don't need an employee. Nor do i have any real criteria for the other, other than enjoyable. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. Problem is I live on the Earth. My children laugh at me, but I have fun.
Years ago I liked at dating sites, felt like people were posting resumes. Or, people posting desires like you were qualifying for a job. Retired, don't need a job. Don't need to wake up feeling like I have a bunch of requirements for the day. If you don't like plums, but like grapefruit (can't stand grapefruit), then I go the store and get both. No big deal. Life's big problems. If you can't laugh and realize people have their differences, well there is the problem. My kids might ask, dad why do you always put bla bla bla on on top of your toast, I will answer, because putting it on the bottom gets my plate all sticky. Do I put it on top of yours? No. Then why worry about it?
I watch the grandkids for my daughter's. Dad, I don't let the boys eat this after 7 at my house. Ok, I'll remember that when I'm at your house, lucky for them they are at my house tonight. My son in law usually starts laughing, then my daughter turns to my son in law and says, you are why in the way I am? We all laugh, and u say have fun you guys, bye, we'll be fine. They come to get the boys, and the house is a mess, we are sleeping on the couch, and then she ask, how late did they stay up? I ummmm, I guess about midnight we feel asleep. That's life. They come over for a holiday, bring a couple of dishes, and I get, oh dad I brought this, I say yuk and they know I don't like it, we all start laughing and I thank God for the moment. But all know, in a crunch I'm there for them. A life emergency, I always get the call. I enjoy the people on here, the grouchy, happy whatever, life is short. I think if we worrief more about how we will treat the other, things would be better.
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