Geesh, I didn't see you did fill in the blank Ruthanne, LOLI think I would fill in the blank with "breathing" layful:
I was thinking about starting a thread and realized I started this one in 2017? Or did I read that wrong. Who knows, who cares, LOL! I'm still alone, 21 years, something like that but who's counting. I just don't go that many places, and not much into believing in "fate" or even miracles. I just feel the pickins get slimmer and slimmer as the years go by. Maybe I should believe in fate, it's fate I am to live alone. And miracles? Yeah, probably a miracle for the guy that dodged a bullet by not meeting up with me :biggrin-new:
I did have a date, about a month ago?? He was tall, and nice looking in a rugged sort of way. Had some health issues but I admired him because he was doing his best to get exercise at the gym, and eat right. Then, while we were having dinner he divulged having a "best friend" (female) that was in bad shape, and couldn't really live her life anymore I asked him if she'd be upset to know he was out with a gal and he said "she might be". He said they don't live together, but I just wanted nothing to do with a guy that already has a best friend (woman). I'm selfish, and want a guy that I can be best friends with. And one that isn't going to go out with other women if I get to ill to go out etc.
So there's my kinda luck. There's more to it, and I doubt I would have wanted a 2nd date anyway, but I couldn't quit thinking about her. I just never would date anyone, never did, that I know of, that had even a girlfriend. Figured there was no future with a guy like that.
I'm sure there are circumstances someone may come up with that it would be ok to do. Have at it if you want to share them.