A wise woman indeed. I did the "miserable coupled" thing once, it was the worst!
I wish I was kidding. But, I am not. Thankfully our meeting only cost me the cost of one cup of over priced coffee. I politely cut it short.
Well, I think that all these points are very reasonable. My former Mother-in-law also had her points. She had exactly 4 of them:
Sorry, I meet all the criteria, but I am taken.
Not if he's squeezing other employees or customers.
You are so sweet. Honey, they all want it they just want to make sure you do too! We are all mature (?) adults. I love when a guy lays it out on the table, so to speak.
There is nothing more attractive to me than an honest, forthright man or woman who speaks plainly about what he/she wants. Who has time to waste on niceties? Many of these guys are widowed sadly or divorced from someone who doesn't want a physical relationship anymore. It is a given, in my opinion, that most of them are kind and good people in very lonely situations. I think my attitude has gotten more charitable towards other's needs as I have gotten older. Personally, I like men more my age but have offers from 40 and 50 yo. Bottom line, you do what makes you happy not someone else. Not to be preachy, if you are single, this is your time to exercise your freedom to choose. Enjoy yourself. PM if you would like to talk more about it.Single women, single men after 55, as well as other "groups" that have some wisdom to share..
..would be welcome.
I am a single lady, for many years now, and I still think "sometimes" that I would like a fella in my life. For those similar to me, I mean that would consider a new mate later in life, this is especially a thread for you. Others are more than welcome to share of course, and add bits, maybe even share their meeting someone later in life.
I think it might be fun to talk about "the battle of the sexes" or just "how do you meet someone", and maybe "did you" and have it be successful. So that opens it up to married couples too. Everyone has their own, unique life, some similarities as well that we share.
Christmas is the hardest time to be alone, but I've found talking with folks about these things helps me a lot, and even can give me hope when I find a couple that is meeting up later in life, and truly enjoying being a part of a couple again, or maybe for the first time.
Maybe this will just be a free-4-all, and hopefully, some fun mixed in, VERY welcome by the way. Like to pay attention to more serious sides of topics, but it is always a joy to have someone come up with a joke about it
just a few ideas for some wanting to share, but not sure what
What type of man/woman would you be willing to date?
Are you more accepting of others short-comings, or less?
Do you think you could not possibly meat someone you right for you at this age?
And what about mistletoe, when you see it do you wonder if anyone is around you would be willing to kiss?
These are just ideas, and probably not that good, so come up with any of your own material.
One last comment about this, and I think older folks make much better "play the field" type from what I've seen. More so then young people, LOL! Older fellas seem to want what they want, but like to move on to the next lady that they spot
We can also get into the "age" of those we might date. Ok, toss the "note in the bottle" out there and see who finds it
These are old what did happen by now 2022That one I'd love, I love most all of the Hallmark romance movies
I wouldn't be surprised if a man does come into my life, if he was quite different than I "think" I want
What activities?
Making the bed now has become an ordeal I need to share with a long term male as why I invested in a Queen size bed......not to go it all alone....the point of caring loving companion for each other not a belt buckle of notches men tality.
Very interested in seeing an update. Best wishes!
Thank you. Sadly, Philly died almost three years ago.
I will respond from the female perspective. Lots of men on the dating sites show pics of their toys ie cars, motorcycles, boats and yes they show their pets too! I find the toys to be a turn off. That tells me nothing of your character or personality. Listing it as a hobby is good enough. I don’t think a person should hide behind anything, including an animal. I like to see a man with his pets. Being an animal lover that is. My perspective for what it’s worth.
Same here, broke picker, claiming to be looking for love but picking men incapable of giving it. I heard once that we choose the person we feel we deserve. Now, I value friendships that are mutually respectful of our differences n commonalities. I was miserable wanting what I did not have, allowing myself to be abused in every way possible. Now that i respect myself, know, accept n embrace who I am, I look at everyone as a potential friend and choose accordingly. So first becoming the person u wish to attract to u solves the problems
So sorry. I hope u have many good memories n they bring u solace.
Yes, thank you. I am at peace, and have moved on.
Thanks for giving me your perspective on the matter. I totally agree with you. You need to learn the really important things about a man such as his character, temperment, maybe a list of hobbies (it's important that he has some rather than being someone who sits 12 hours/each day and stares at all the sports channels), his family and what he enjoys doing. Does he read? Does he enjoys going out or is he a homebody? However, you are not looking to buy a motorcycle, boat, truck, snowmobile or whatever. Yes, I think it is pretty well the same kind of thinking as sticking a dog or cat into the camera lens. A definite "turn off" for me.
That's an old story. Kids trying to boss their parents. It's OK for them to find mates, have fun and enjoy life but not for you! Your suppose live like some monk or nun? Isn't it nice to be young and "KNOW IT ALL." My suggestion is ignore the kiddies and do what is right for you! Life is short! Seize the day!
Thankfully, my kids have not interfered in any of my relationships, though there were a few women, that I know they did not care for very much.
