My wife left us when our youngest was 9 months old. When I needed a sitter, it was either my mom or my sister or sister-in-law. I didn't date or go out for an evening for years except for pizza and a movie with the kids once or twice a month and visits with family.
In states that stopped funding Family Planning clinics, the same services are now available at any OB/GYN office. Thank insurance companies for that. They made deals with state legislators.
Did you know that while my kids were little, fathers were not eligible for any kind of welfare or social assistance if they worked over 100 hours per month? A single father's kids qualified for Medicaid/Medi-Cal, though, unless they could be insured through his employer. So at least 1/4 of my income went on my kids' health insurance. The rest covered rent, utilities, and lots of food. There was no free lunch program back then, and I didn't qualify for food stamps because I worked over 100hrs/month. I bought most of their clothes and shoes at Goodwill and saved all year for Christmas. Single father's were excluded from any sort of Toys-for-Tots charities, too. He could only get that kind of assistance from some churches.
In short; single fathers were not treated the same as single mothers. The system discriminated against single fathers until the late-80s and early-90s, depending on the state. ...But I digress.
Again, in my opinion, abortion laws shouldn't even exist in any way, shape or form, and any politician who feels the same way will get my vote, for sure. Voters can decide who in their state makes state laws. Your argument isn't with me, it's with your state representatives.
btw, Vida, you seem to think men aren't very capable of raising children. That's fairly common thinking among women, although, thankfully, much less common than it used to be.