What accomplishment are you most proud of?

I see this is an old revived 2023 thread.

As someone with a significant list of impressive accomplishments, I have no interest in exposing many of them to the general public that would otherwise affect the way others treat me on a community web board like this. In other words, I prefer anonymity.
Frankly, you sound a little conceited. To be honest, even if you were Nobel Prize winner for example, I don't know about other people on this forum, but I myself would not treat you any differently from someone ( for example, like me) who does not have a significant list of accomplishments.
 
I agree, but for a different reason. My religion doesn’t allow us to share our proudness. It’s fine to be proud of myself, but not to talk about it or spread it around. With pride being one of the seven deadly sins, in fact it’s number one, I try hard to hold to it.
Well what kind of pride are you talking about? The kind of pride that just thinks only of themselves would be terrible but if you're talking about proud of something that you've accomplished in your life it probably means something that you're glad or happy about that you accomplished. I don't think that you're sinning or breaking any commandment by going over now, at our age, you know the accomplishments that we thought were important to us. But maybe that is considered self centered?
 

The accomplishment I am most proud of is this...

My father passed away unexpectedly in 2000. My mother, who was 68 at the time, had severe clinical depression, agoraphobia, and she could no longer drive after having a number of seizures. She hadn't left the house in 4 years. There were times when my mother would just sit in a chair and rock back and forth. My father took care of all of the household items and ran all their errands.

Being an only child, my mother became solely my responsibility. I used to "talk" to my father to give me the insight to make the best decisions possible. I did all the research I could and met with a representative of Elder Care to discuss how to proceed. I soon made my mother responsible for going out and getting the mail, sorting through it and telling what was in it since I was now taking care of two households. It gave her a feeling of importance and inclusion. I think my father had somewhat given up on her but I would not.

I eventually got her to go to the grocery store with me on Saturdays. She was afraid she didn't look "put together" enough because my father had high standards. I said "Wait until you see what people wear to the grocery store". She soon started going on walks with her neighbor. Hubby and I took her out to dinner. She went on a cruise with my cousin. She blossomed and was ready to get out into the world again.

We were living in South Florida. In 2006, we bought a home in Dallas so I could work from home and hand-picked a pre-construction villa for her in a 55+ community. She loved living there and made friends. When she could no longer live independently, we moved her into a great assisted living community and she loved it there as well. She had become very social.

I made lots of sacrifices, but when she passed away in 2021 I felt no guilt because I knew I had given her the best life possible. And I'm proud of that.
 
I see this is an old revived 2023 thread.

As someone with a significant list of impressive accomplishments, I have no interest in exposing many of them to the general public that would otherwise affect the way others treat me on a community web board like this. In other words, I prefer anonymity.
David, many of us know that you are quite accomplished when it comes to technology so short of telling us you invented the internet I think we would all be proud for you.
 

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