Hope this isn't too off topic but do any of you remember, in grade school, the teacher having the kids go around and each tell everything they got for Christmas?  Even at the time, it seemed like a bad idea to me, and looking back I'm sort of appalled. 
 My little school was in West Virginia where a few kids came from very wealthy families, but some were so poor they came to school barefoot in the fall until the PTA women got shoes for them.  Ask them where they lived and they would answer, "Up a holler."
The year I was eight my parents were building a new house and we didn't get much.  I remember thinking, well at least poor Charles would have someone else to share the shame with.