Why do so many younger members quickly leave SF?

I do think, especially in the covid section, that political views come out. It was good of her to explain why she was leaving. On one particular board I was on (it was that post punk kitchen) people who stated they were leaving the board for whatever reason were immediately attacked and mocked. The called it 'flounce.' And as I stated, that was a mean board.
I'm so sad to learn that about anything connected with Isa Moskowitz as, when I was vegan and had all her books, I felt her to be a peaceful person. It's really a shame, how nasty people can get in a group; that heard mentality at work.
 

I was thinking of another site of which you are a member....there is someone who just won't stop denigrating Trump. It gets very tedious....I'm surprised that anyone still responds to him.
I'm afraid I can't comment on that, (forum rules doncha know!), thought it was me banging on about fathers/parental rights, or lack of them, that almost no one seems interested in here or elsewhere!! :(
 
Just to encourage anyone of the value of occasionally letting one's mind churn through gears of understanding the logic of thinking structure per below examples. Enjoy finding some more nuggets we might laugh at.

30 Common Logical Fallacies–A Study Starter

https://academicinfluence.com/inflection/influence/logical-fallacies

Ad Hominem (attack directed at the speaker )
Speaker 2: Of course you would say that. You’re a Christian. Why should we listen to you? 👹

Appeal to Authority, The argumentum ad verecundiam
Aristotle thought women were inferior to men. Aristotle is one of the smartest men who ever lived, so he must be. 🤴

Appeal to Ignorance Argumentum ad ignorantiam
We haven’t found life on other planets, so there’s no life on any other planet, anywhere. 👾

Appeal to Pity The argumentum ad misericordiam
You should give me a promotion. I have a lot of debt and am behind on my rent.👨‍👧‍👧

Appeal to Popular Opinion The argumentum ad populum
Throughout history, most philosophers thought men were more rational than women, therefore this is true. 🐓

Causal Fallacy
It’s cold on a summer day. Global warming is a hoax. 👻

Circular Argument Circulus in probando

Speaker 1: You should trust the Bible because it’s the Word of God.
Speaker 2: How do you know it’s the Word of God?
Speaker 1: Because God tells us it is. 👰‍♂️


False Dilemma
If you aren’t a capitalist, you must be a communist. 🤐

Hasty Generalization
My grandmother smoked for 80 years and died at 100. Obviously, smoking isn’t harmful. 👹

Loaded Question Fallacy

Have you stopped beating your wife? :LOL:

Post Hoc Fallacy Post hoc ergo propter hoc
Every time we sacrifice virgins, it rains. Therefore, sacrificing virgins causes it to rain.

Red Herring Fallacy

Child: This fish tastes funny. I don’t want to eat this.
Parent: There are children starving in Africa. Eat your dinner. 🙍‍♀️


Strawman Argument
Speaker 1: I think we should have an expanded social safety net for the poor in our country.
Speaker 2: So, you think we should just throw money at lazy people who don’t want to work and think they are entitled to be kept up by other people, right? 🤑


Non-Sequitur Fallacy
My last boyfriend was really mean to me. All men are abusive. :mad:
You've saved me some work looking up those for us, (now how many do I probably use on a daily basis without realising it most of the time, and just what is "A no true Scotsman" logical fallacy, that didn't make the list???). :)
 

When someone wants to leave a board, all they have to do is stop participating.
When they make a big show of leaving, they are acting childish, craving attention & sympathy & trying to make others feel just terrible about "Driving them away."
Unfortunately anyone doing their best to "drive me away" doesn't know how unbelievably stubborn, pigheaded etc. I am, (though not completely thick skinned or I wouldn't have noticed!). :)
 
Funny thing is, I notice this in more in members who have only been here a short while and in that short while seemed to be posting 24/7 during their brief associations.
An old boss of mine who I like to quote used to say things like, "I used to think how stupid my father was until I reached the age of thirty, then I was surprised how much he'd caught up in the intervening years", (or words to that effect, maybe inspired by a Dickens comment?)! :)

I guess for "the younger generation" coming up against folks who won't necessarily agree with them, or back down in an argument, must come as a bit of a shock!
 
When someone wants to leave a board, all they have to do is stop participating.
When they make a big show of leaving, they are acting childish, craving attention & sympathy & trying to make others feel just terrible about "Driving them away."

If someone has been an active member, a brief comment that they have chosen to leave is appreciated. No details are needed. Some of us worry about a missing member.
 
I'm so sad to learn that about anything connected with Isa Moskowitz as, when I was vegan and had all her books, I felt her to be a peaceful person. It's really a shame, how nasty people can get in a group; that heard mentality at work.
Yes, that forum was very active and very nasty. I got attacked more than once. Isa actually intervened twice. And once she did the little snits completely stopped. Not one of them kept up their crap which shows what little jerks they really were.

I think she may have partially closed the forum because of some of the behavior. She did have moderators but they weren't much either. The forum seemed to evolve to be little about veganism. Just a bunch of cliques signaling each other and trying to out woke one another and/or agreeing with each other left and right. . I think Ms. Moskowitz noted the issue. My opinion.
 
I guess for "the younger generation" coming up against folks who won't necessarily agree with them, or back down in an argument, must come as a bit of a shock!
Absolutely! With some they will argue their opinion to infinity. I used to think (regarding some forums I was on) that the only way to shut these people up is to write 'I now agree with you, I think like you do and it's you and your opinion that made me change my mind.' Nothing else will satisfy them. Too bad that didn't happen. :ROFLMAO:
 
Yes, that forum was very active and very nasty. I got attacked more than once. Isa actually intervened twice. And once she did the little snits completely stopped. Not one of them kept up their crap which shows what little jerks they really were.

I think she may have partially closed the forum because of some of the behavior. She did have moderators but they weren't much either. The forum seemed to evolve to be little about veganism. Just a bunch of cliques signaling each other and trying to out woke one another and/or agreeing with each other left and right. . I think Ms. Moskowitz noted the issue. My opinion.
Good to know she tried, at least and didn't agree with what was happening. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
 
I don't know why anyone in their 50's or even their 60's would consider themselves a "senior".
but, that's just me.
What do you consider someone that is 60? I’ve been considered a child my whole life by my older siblings. Yet I’ve had the most difficult life of us all! I’ve had no voice in my family. I’ve been in the military, a police dispatcher, owned my own business. I’ve battled chronic disease for 25 years, currently on dialysis awaiting a 2nd transplant. Had 2 children, helped raise 3 step children. 6 grandchildren. Do I have no wisdom?
 
What do you consider someone that is 60? I’ve been considered a child my whole life by my older siblings. Yet I’ve had the most difficult life of us all! I’ve had no voice in my family. I’ve been in the military, a police dispatcher, owned my own business. I’ve battled chronic disease for 25 years, currently on dialysis awaiting a 2nd transplant. Had 2 children, helped raise 3 step children. 6 grandchildren. Do I have no wisdom?
You are equating wisdom with being a senior? I would say you are an incredible woman but this has nothing to do with being a senior.
 

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