Why do women like the scuzzy look of men?

Ralphy1

Ralphy1

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You know the look, the unshaven for a day or two one. Seems to be a turn on for a lot of ladies that is beyond my comprehension. So, com'on female forum members, let me in on it...
 

I don't get it either. Doesn't appeal to me, especially since you wouldn't want to kiss somebody with scratchy stubble! :playful:
 
Not me! I've never liked facial hair.. The most I can tolerate is a neat mustache... and then only on some men. Some look dirty with even that.
 

I have no idea what the attraction is. Looking like an unmade bed is about as unattractive as it gets. I guess I'll never understand "fashion"!
 
Ralphy1 said:
You know the look, the unshaven for a day or two one. Seems to be a turn on for a lot of ladies that is beyond my comprehension. So, com'on female forum members, let me in on it...
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Few men can pull off 'the look' as far as I'm concerned. The few that do, look sexy to me. That's the point of doing it anyway. .
 
I quite like stubble or a nicely trimmed beard, all depends on the man. Some suit some don't. Harrison Ford with stubble... what's not to like? :playful:
 
I think it can depend on the look of a lady. "Hottee" (today's terminology) looking ladies go for "Hottee" looking men. Some ladies love a full beard. Years ago, I dated a divorced lady whose husband had a full beard. I only had mustache, as I do today. After we broke up, she met a guy that, believe it or not, was the same height as her "ex" and had a full beard, like her "ex".
 
The unshaven look is one of the few rants I allow myself. They look like homeless guys. To me it speaks of laziness and poor grooming.

... of course, that seems to apply to every other aspect of personal appearance these days ...

Now I'm just waiting for women to jump on the fad of not shaving their pits and legs for a few weeks ... :cower:
 
I find that look very unattractive, and can't understand why so many movie and TV directors are promoting it. I don't even like to LOOK at someone with all that stubble, let alone kiss them! (I do like the look of a well-trimmed beard, however.)

I wonder how they achieve it? Use scissors every few days?
 
SifuPhil said:
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Now I'm just waiting for women to jump on the fad of not shaving their pits and legs for a few weeks ... :cower:
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French women don't shave anywhere..you can be on a bus..and the most beautiful girl can get on..hang on to a strap to reveal black armpit hair!
 
Twixie said:
French women don't shave anywhere..you can be on a bus..and the most beautiful girl can get on..hang on to a strap to reveal black armpit hair!
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I was going to mention this, but I would have incorrectly said European... :apologetic:

I had to shave every day during my working life, had some spectacular "nicks" that should have been stitched. Now, I alternate between shaved, stubbles, a full beard(short) or a goatee depending on the mood.
 
It's not all European girls..just the French..I lived in France for 6 years..and I have seen the most beautiful of women look like they had a hairpiece glued underneath their arms..

My partner is not good at shaving..he comes out of the bathroom looking like he's cut his throat..(usually when we have an important appointment)...:mad:
 
I say hair on the head, unless you are trying out for the "fuller brush " Person remember door to door selling those scrub brushes. Or paint it yellow and be the new scrub daddy.
 
Twixie said:
French women don't shave anywhere..you can be on a bus..and the most beautiful girl can get on..hang on to a strap to reveal black armpit hair!
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Hence, why I am not at this moment chasing women in France ... :playful:;)

Strangely enough armpit hair doesn't bother me that much - it's when they're showing off their Uggs and they aren't wearing any ... :cower:
 
Awhile back, the 5 o'clock shadow became a popular look for young men, like Don Johnson & his rolled up jacket sleeves. Sounds like it's still going on.
 

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