Why do you think all the mass shooters are men and not women?

Most are men. Certainly not all:
https://www.insideedition.com/women-who-kill-americas-most-shocking-female-mass-shooters-42142

Tashfeen Malik - San Bernardino Shooter, 14 Killed
Fourteen people were shot dead at a San Bernardino, Calif., office holiday party on Dec. 2, 2015 when authorities say Tashfeen Malik and her husband, Syed Rizwan Farook, stormed the facility after reportedly pledging their allegiance to an ISIS leader in a Facebook post. The couple had a 6-month-old child. The FBI says Malik, a Pakistani native, had been living in Saudi Arabia when she married Farook, a U.S. citizen who was born in Illinois, before moving to the U.S. the year of the shooting. Both Malik and Farook were killed in a standoff with police.

On Jan. 30, 2006, authorities say Jennifer San Marco opened fire inside the U.S. Postal Service mail sorting center in Goleta where she once worked, leaving six people dead before she fatally shot herself in the head. Earlier that day, police believe San Marco, who'd been previously granted early retirement for psychological reasons, fatally shot former neighbor Beverly Graham. Investigators say San Marco was psychologically disturbed and believed she was the target of some sort of conspiracy based out of the mail facility.

Brenda Spencer was just a San Diego 16-year-old when she walked across the street from her home to Grover Cleveland Elementary School on Jan. 29, 1979 and began shooting at students. Eight children were injured, and two adults — the school's principal and custodian — were killed as they came to the aid of students'. Spencer would go on to give a reporter a bizarre answer for why she carried out the shooting. "I don't like Mondays. This livens up the day," she said before eventually giving herself up and later pleading guilty to two counts of murder. She remains in a California prison.

Amy Bishop - University of Alabama Shooting, 3 Killed
Bishop was a college professor of neuroscience with a Harvard Ph.D. when authorities say she opened fire on fellow faculty members at the University of Alabama in Huntsville on Feb. 20, 2010. Bizarrely, students in the class she taught leading up to the faculty meeting where she pulled out a 9mm handgun said she seemed perfectly normal. Even fellow teachers in the meeting said Bishop acted normally before withdrawing the firearm, which she used to kill three and injure three others. The mother of four eventually entered a guilty plea and remains in prison today.

Laurie Dann - Winnetka Elementary Shooting Spree, 1 Killed
Laurie Dann was a 30-year-old divorcee in 1988 when she delivered arsenic-tainted Rice Krispy treats and juice boxes to Chicago-area acquaintances, former babysitter clients, her psychiatrist, ex-husband and several fraternity houses at Northwestern University. No one was ultimately fatally poisoned, but on May 20 of that year, Dann entered a Winnetka, Ill., elementary school and started shooting. She injured several children and killed an 8-year-old boy. She would later hold a family hostage for hours — shooting but not killing the family patriarch — before fatally shooting herself.

Latina Williams - Louisiana Technical College, 2 Killed
On Feb. 8, 2008, 23-year-old nursing student Latina Williams opened fire in a classroom at the Louisiana Technical College in Baton Rouge. Two women were killed. Williams then turned the gun on herself. According to a statement subsequently released by the Baton Rouge Police Department, Williams displayed signs "of paranoia and losing touch with reality" leading up to the shooting.
 

Perhaps women are afraid of firearms, so they prefer other methods:
https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/72351/12-female-poisoners-who-killed-arsenic

Giulia Tofana
was a poison-maker in 17th-century Italy. Some sources attribute the invention of the mysterious poison called Aqua Tofana to her, but there are earlier mentions of the “inheritance potion.” (Others attribute the development of Aqua Tofana to Teofania di Adamo, who was executed in 1633 and might have been Giulia Tofana’s mother.) At any rate, both women made and sold the concoction, which included a base of arsenic with some other ingredients, most likely lead and belladonna. Just a few drops could kill a person. At the time, many women had so little status and power that their only means of breaking away from a bad marriage was death, and there was no shortage of women who wanted to keep that option in a small bottle on their dressing tables. As many as 600 people may have died as a result of Tofana’s business over an 18-year period. Eventually, one of her customers was caught, which led to an investigation. Tofana was executed for her activities, along with her daughter and several other accomplices, in 1659.

Amy Archer-Gilligan
ran a nursing home in Connecticut from 1907 to 1917. When her first husband and business partner James Archer died in 1910, Archer-Gilligan was the beneficiary of a substantial recently-purchased life insurance policy. She married Michael Gilligan in 1913. Three months later, he was dead. Meanwhile, too many people were dying in the nursing home, particularly those who had recently paid for their care with a lump sum. A complaint from a relative led to a newspaper and police investigation, which led to exhumations. Her second husband and several patients tested positive for arsenic. Archer-Gilligan was tried on only one count of murder and found guilty in 1917. She was sentenced to death, but a new trial was granted to determine whether Archer-Gilligan was insane. That trial led to a life sentence, but she was later sent to a mental institution where she lived until her death in 1962. Archer-Gilligan's number of victims could be anywhere between five and 48. Her story is thought to have inspired the play Arsenic and Old Lace.

Bertha Gifford
was born in the 1870s in the town of Morse Mill, Missouri. She married a man named Graham, but when she took up with Gene Gifford, her husband died of a mysterious ailment. She and Gifford married and moved to Catawissa, Missouri, where Bertha became known as a Good Samaritan. She often took care of sick people in her community, going to their homes and cooking for them. She built a reputation as an excellent cook, and she also made home remedies. Quite a few children died under her care, but children, especially sick children, often died from one disease or another in those days. Older people died, too. But in 1917, two healthy, middle-aged men died. Sherman Pounds died at the Gifford’s home, and later hired hand Jim Ogle died after a dispute over pay with the Giffords. Pounds’ three-year-old granddaughter also died while staying with Bertha Gifford in 1922, and seven-year-old Irene Stuhlfelder died under Gifford’s care in 1923. In 1925, Ethel Schamel, two of her sons, and another relative all died within a few months, again under Gifford’s care. Farm hand Ed Brinley died in 1927. Finally, growing rumors of Gifford’s involvement in all those deaths brought an investigation. The bodies of Ed Brinley and the Schamel brothers were exhumed and found to contain large amounts of arsenic. It came out that Bertha Gifford had purchased a lot of arsenic over the years to poison barn rats. She went to trial for two murders in 1928, and was found criminally insane. She was committed to a state mental hospital, where she died in 1951.

Mary Ann Geering
was born in 1800 and lived in Guestling, East Sussex, UK, in 1846 when her husband Richard Geering inherited £20. That was a lot of money back then, but not enough to induce murder plans in most people. Two years later, Richard died after a painful illness of five days. His death was attributed to heart disease. Four months passed, and Geering’s 21-year-old son George died. A few weeks later in 1849, 26-year-old son James also died from a painful illness of just a few days. A third son, 18-year-old Benjamin, fell ill shortly afterward on Easter Sunday. This time, doctors removed the patient from the home, and Benjamin recovered. His doctors raised an alarm, and Mary Ann Geering’s husband and two dead sons were exhumed. The bodies were full of arsenic. Geering was arrested and her three younger children were taken to a poorhouse. She confessed during her trial, and was hanged in 1849.

Blanche Taylor Moore
married her first husband James Taylor in 1952 when she was 19 years old. She jumped into marriage to escape her abusive father, an alcoholic minister named P.D. Kiser. Kiser died in 1966 of heart failure, although arsenic was later found in his body. Taylor himself died in 1973 after a mysterious illness. Blanche had been carrying on an affair with her co-worker Raymond Reid for years, and they began dating openly after her husband's death. Reid, however, died in 1986.
Blanche then was able to openly date another man she had been seeing secretly, the Reverend Dwight Moore. The two married in 1989. Immediately after returning from their honeymoon, Rev. Moore was admitted to a hospital. Suspicious doctors found he had been poisoned with arsenic. Dwight Moore survived with treatment, but has suffered lingering health effects. The bodies of James Taylor and Raymond Reid were exhumed; both showed high levels of arsenic. Blanche Moore was arrested and tried in 1990 for the murder of Raymond Reid. She was found guilty and sentenced to death. Moore is on Death Row and continues to profess her innocence. A made-for-television movie about her case was aired in 1993, in which Elizabeth Montgomery played the role of Moore. Incidentally, there is no truth to the rumor that Moore requested a live kitten for her last meal. Now 82, she is still on Death Row.

Judias Buenoano
was an abused child and already had a son when she married Air Force officer James Goodyear in 1962. The couple had two more children and settled in Florida. Goodyear served in Vietnam, but died of a mysterious malady three months after coming home to his wife in 1971. Buenoano collected on three life insurance policies. A couple of months later, she collected on another policy when her home burned (another insured home burned a few years later). By 1973 Buenoano had a new lover, Bobby Joe Morris. She and her children moved to Colorado with Morris in 1977, but he died of a mysterious malady in 1978. Again, Buenoano collected on several insurance policies.

Back in Florida by 1979, Buenoano's adult son Michael visited his mother and suffered base metal poisoning, which left him disabled but alive. He drowned in 1980 while on a canoeing trip with his mother, and Buenoano again collected on three life insurance policies. She dated a man named John Gentry and took out a life insurance policy on him. He was hospitalized with a mysterious malady, but survived, only to return to the hospital when his car exploded in 1983. Gentry cooperated with investigating police, telling them of the vitamins Buenoano gave him before his earlier illness. The "vitamins" contained paraformaldehyde and arsenic. Gentry also found out that Buenoano had told her friends that Gentry had a terminal illness (he did not). The bodies of James Goodyear and Bobby Joe Morris were exhumed and found to contain high levels of arsenic. In 1984, Judias Buenoano was sentenced to life for the murder of her son, and in 1985, she received a death sentence for the murder of James Goodyear. Buenoano was executed in Florida in 1998.

MargieVelma Bullard Barfield
was not home when a house fire killed her first husband Thomas Burke in 1969 in North Carolina. Another fire soon afterwards destroyed what was left of the home. She married Jennings Barfield in 1970, but he died in 1971. Barfield moved in with her parents, but her father died of cancer and her mother died in 1974 of a mysterious illness. A boyfriend also died in a car accident.
Barfield moved in with Dollie and Montgomery Edwards in 1976, working as a nurse for the elderly couple. They both died in 1977. The next elderly man in her care, John Henry Lee, also died in 1977. Barfield then moved in with her boyfriend Stuart Taylor, who soon died of a mysterious illness. Taylor's autopsy showing the presence of arsenic, and a tip from Barfield's sister led to her arrest. Jennings Barfield's body was exhumed and also found to contain arsenic. The widow eventually confessed to several murders. In 1978, Velma Barfield was convicted of the murder of Stuart Taylor and in 1984 became the first woman in the US executed by lethal injection.

NANNIE DOSS
Serial killer Nancy Hazle later became known as Nannie Doss and was also referred to in the press as "the Giggling Granny" because of her bizarre behavior. In 1921, when she was only 16 years old, she married Charlie Braggs. They produced four daughters. The two middle daughters died under mysterious circumstances in 1927, and Braggs left Doss. She met Frank Harrelson through a lonely hearts column and married him in either 1929, 1937, or 1945 (accounts vary). He died from ingesting rat poison in 1945. Meanwhile, two of Doss' grandchildren died under mysterious circumstances. Doss married her third husband, Arlie Lanning, in 1947. He died in 1952 of heart failure, although he had no history of heart problems. Soon after, their home burned. The house had been willed to Lanning's sister, but the insurance beneficiary was Doss. Soon after, Lanning's mother and Doss' sister died.

Husband number four was Richard Morton, whom Doss married in 1952. During that marriage, Doss' father died and her mother came to live with her. The arrangement did not last long, as Louisa Hazle died within a few days of her arrival in 1953. Richard Morton died three months later. Nannie Doss immediately began looking for another husband, and married her fifth, Sam Doss, in 1953. Within a couple of months, he was hospitalized with a mysterious illness, but survived and was sent home on October 5th, only to die later that night. Sam Doss' suspicious doctor ordered an autopsy and found (you guessed it) arsenic. Nannie was finally arrested, and she confessed to murdering all four deceased husbands, a mother-in-law, her own mother, her sister, and a grandson. She pleaded guilty to the murder of Sam Doss and was sentenced to life. She died in prison in 1965.

Anna Marie Hann
was the first woman to die in Ohio's electric chair and only the second woman executed by the state. She immigrated from Germany in 1929. After divorcing her second husband, Hahn began working as a private live-in nurse for elderly German men in Cincinnati. Her patients tended to die and leave their fortunes to Hahn, which helped pay for her gambling habit. The string of unusual deaths ended in 1937, when police found a suspicious amount of arsenic in George Obendoerfer's body. An investigation revealed a string of unusual deaths among Hahn's patients, and a survivor who caught her trying to poison him. Hahn was convicted of one murder, that of Jacob Wagner, in 1937. She was executed in 1938.

Daisy Louisa de Melker
was the second woman ever to be hanged for her crimes in South Africa. She married Alfred Cowle in 1909. Four of their five children died in infancy. Cowle died in 1923, and left de Melker a substantial inheritance. Three years later, de Melker married Robert Sproat, who died in 1927 after a painful illness that resembled Cowle's. De Melker once again collected a fortune in inheritance.
In 1931, Daisy married Sydney Clarence de Melker, a plumber, as her previous husbands had been. In 1932, de Melker's 20-year old son Rhodes Cowle died after drinking coffee his mother had prepared. William Sproat, the brother of de Melker's second husband, became suspicious and demanded an investigation. Rhodes Cowle's body was found to contain arsenic. James Webster, a man who had become sick after drinking some of Cowle's coffee but survived, also tested positive for arsenic. William Cowle and Robert Sproat, de Melker's first and second husbands, were exhumed and strychnine was found in the decomposed tissues. De Melker was charged with three murders but found guilty of only one, that of her son. She was hanged in December of 1932.

Mary Ann Cotton
had three husbands and at least 10 children who died of ambiguous gastric illnesses between 1852 and 1872. The third of her four husbands survived, and her 13th and last child was born as she awaited trial. Several stepchildren and lovers also died of the same symptoms, but Cotton avoided suspicion by constantly moving to different towns around England. The first sign of trouble for Cotton came in 1872, when she predicted the death of her apparently healthy young stepson Charles Edward Cotton to an official. When Charles Edward Cotton died suddenly a few days later, Cotton's first errand was to collect on his life insurance. Told that she needed a death certificate, Cotton went to the child's doctor, who refused to sign until a formal inquest was held. An examination of the body found evidence of arsenic. Two other bodies from the family were exhumed and were also found to contain arsenic. Mary Ann Cotton was found guilty of the death of her stepson and was promptly hanged.

Tillie Klimek
Chicago resident Tillie Klimek had a reputation as a psychic. She began predicting the deaths of neighborhood dogs with startling accuracy. In 1914 she predicted the death of her husband, John Mitkiewitz. Astonishingly, Mitkiewitz died three weeks later. Klimek collected his life insurance money and went to a matchmaker. Her second husband, John Ruskowski, died only three months later, just as Klimek predicted. Husband number three, Frank Kupczyk, lasted only a few years before he died. Klimek also foresaw the death of a neighbor woman who raised suspicions about Klimek's husbands. Klimek predicted the death of three children belonging to a family she had trouble with as well—and sure enough, the children all died. The widow remarried to Anton Klimek, husband number four, in 1921. Soon after a new life insurance policy went into effect, family members visited the Klimek home and found Anton sick in bed. When his stomach was pumped, the food Klimek has eaten was found to contain arsenic. Tillie was arrested and confessed to the attempted murder of Anton Klimek. She was sentenced to life imprisonment, and the deaths of her other suspected victims were not investigated. Her sentence carried the stipulation that Klimek was never to be allowed to cook for other prison inmates.
 
Actually not all, just an overwhelming majority:
Mass shootings in the U.S.: shooters by gender 2023 | Statista


As to the why...multiple reasons the various articles people are posting touch on.

My own first thought is that i suspect a woman who's reached a breaking point is much more likely target specific individual or individuals she feels harmed her or are a tangible threat to her (or her children) then some 'group' of people they view as some existential threat to their existence (or more often their self-image, self-importance) as some men do.

i do think women are as capable of violence and doing bodily harm--just it is generally (not always) more personal for a woman--retribution, vengence. While there have been notorious cases of female serial killers (around the world) all too often if a male perp was involved as well it is assumed HE instigated the actions, and that's not always the case.
With women, it often has something to do with money, rather than rage. Life Insurance policy.
 

Thank you for the link. I found the last paragraph to be particularly pertinent

On encouraging signs that show future mass shootings can be prevented

I would say, in particular, the media coverage seems to have shifted. I'm not seeing as much of the perpetrator in the news cycle. I'm not seeing the perpetrator's name and face everywhere, which we know is what contributes to the social contagion.

I think we are having these conversations about gun policies that we could put in place — like red-flag laws, waiting periods — that might have prevented this type of shooting. I am hopeful that people are really done with this and really ready to make the changes that we need to make to prevent future victims.
 
With women, it often has something to do with money, rather than rage. Life Insurance policy.
I don't think that I have ever heard of a woman shooting her husband and her children. On the other hand it is not uncommon for a father to commit murder/suicide when estranged from his wife.

I see that as an example of a man angry about loss of control over his former partner. In some mass shootings the perp is angry with his employer and/or fellow employees. It seems to me that anger is a driving force, as is a desire for revenge against some personal grievance.

In most cases the anger is not warranted. People who have every right to be angry because of disadvantage or persecution are less likely to take up a gun and go on a rampage than white men who feel disempowered in some way. This is just a personal impression, but an earlier post did refer to this aspect of the problem.

Obviously there are mass killings for other reasons - political/religious reasons fuel attacks on places of worship all around the world. Wars are the most extreme example of this but this thread is about personal vendettas that seem to make no sense to anyone other than the perps.
 
I aggressively assert that a woman's love is always conditional.

The only part of that sentence i take issue with is 'always'. Few things having to do with human behavior can be described in absolutes: all/none; always/never.

I would also ask if you distinguish between 'conditions' and healthy self protective boundaries regardless of gender. If more people knew how to set and maintain the latter fewer would find themselves stuck in toxic or outright abusive relationships
 
It's a combination of testosterone and cultural conditioning. Mostly the latter. For centuries, little American boys have grown up playing with toy guns, playing "cowboys and Indians" (with lots of shooting from those toy guns,) and so on. Look at the movies kids are exposed to all the time. Who does most of the shooting in the movies?

For those who are so inclined, it takes very little to convince them that a "real man" carries a gun. It's drummed into their heads constantly by the media, especially the more insane social media. Women, not so much.

Also, don't men in more peaceful countries have as much testosterone in their bodies?
 
I don't think that I have ever heard of a woman shooting her husband and her children.
Rare, but it happens. From Wikipedia:
Date
Location
Notes
31Roman EmpireLivilla, along with her lover Sejanus, was accused of poisoning Drusus Julius Caesar, the son of Emperor Tiberius. According to historian Cassius Dio, Tiberius placed Livilla in the custody of her mother Antonia, who locked her up in a room where she was starved to death.[17]
c. 797 (before 805)Byzantine EmpireIrene of Athens organised a conspiracy to have her son Constantine VI eliminated so she could become sole ruler of the Byzantine Empire. On 19 August 797, her supporters gouged out his eyes and had him imprisoned. He died sometime before 805, possibly as a result of his injuries.[22]
1884–1894Maine, United StatesAfter getting away with the murder of her first husband and their three children, Mary Cowan poisoned her second husband and their son with arsenic. The husband survived and she was sentenced to life imprisonment.[36][37][38]
29 June 1892Necochea, Buenos Aires Province, ArgentinaIn 1892, Francisca Rojas murdered her two children and attempted to blame her neighbour, her motive being to appease a man who was reluctant to marry her due to her "two brats". When presented with evidence against her, she broke down and confessed. She is believed to be the first criminal in the world to be convicted with fingerprint evidence.[39]
1 May 1945Führerbunker, Berlin, Nazi GermanyAs it became clear to them that Germany was going to lose the Second World War, Nazi Propaganda Minister Joseph Goebbels and his wife Magda made the decision to kill themselves and their children, rather than succumb to capture by the advancing Russian Army. SS dentist Sturmbannführer Helmut Kunz injected the children with morphine, after which Magda and SS-Obersturmbannführer Ludwig Stumpfegger (Adolf Hitler's personal doctor) crushed ampules of cyanide in their mouths.[42]
31 March 1952Soviet UnionAnatoly Motsny, veteran of the Eastern Front during World War II, former Senior Lieutenant in the Red Army, and former Hero of the Soviet Union, was stripped of all titles and awards after he murdered his five-year-old son.[43]
19 May 1983Springfield, Oregon, United StatesDiane Downs shot her three children and drove them to McKenzie-Willamette Medical Center, where she claimed that the shootings had happened during an attempted carjacking. Cheryl (aged seven) was dead upon arrival and the other two children, Danny (aged three) and Christie (aged eight), suffered serious injuries. Hospital staff found Diane's behaviour suspicious and forensic evidence did not match her statements to police. She was charged with murder and two counts of attempted murder and assault and sentenced to life in prison.[52][53]
October 1994John D. Long Lake, South Carolina, United StatesOn 25 October 1994, Susan Smith reported to police that she had been carjacked by a black man while her children were still inside the vehicle. However, on 3 November she confessed to letting her car roll into John D. Long Lake.[55][56]
20 June 2001Houston, Texas, United StatesWhile suffering from severe postpartum depression, postpartum psychosis, and schizophrenia, Andrea Yates drowned her five children in their bathtub on 20 June 2001. She was sentenced to life imprisonment before being found not guilty by reason of insanity, after which she was moved to the North Texas State Hospital, a high-security mental health facility.[59][60]
22 November 2004Plano, Texas, United StatesDena Schlosser was diagnosed with hydrocephalus at the age of eight and suffered from a variety of mental health problems throughout her life. During an episode described as a "religious frenzy", she amputated the arms of her eleven-month-old daughter, Margaret, who died as a result.[61][62] She was committed to the North Texas State Hospital, where she became a roommate of Andrea Yates (see above).[63]
2005–2013Oulu, FinlandFrom 2005 to 2013, Kaisa Vornanen-Karaduman gave birth to five babies, each of which she suffocated in a plastic bag before abandoning in a basement storage room. She was caught in 2014 when the smell caused a complaint to be made to authorities.[64][65]
14 January 2006Nässjö, SwedenNiina Äikiä and her boyfriend Eddy Larsson began to torture her intellectually disabled son Bobby in late 2005, which culminated in his death the following year.[66]
3 August 2007London, United KingdomPeter Connelly, more widely known as "Baby P", was a 17-month-old boy who died in 2007 after suffering more than fifty injuries over an eight-month period while under the care of his mother Tracey Connelly and her boyfriend.[70]
3 March 2012Coventry, England, United KingdomDaniel Pełka was severely abused by his mother Magdalena Łuczak along with her new partner Mariusz Krężołek until it resulted in his death in March 2012. The extent of Daniel's injuries and failure of social services to identify him as a victim of child abuse caused a shock in the UK media. Magdalena and Mariusz were jailed for life and both later died in prison.[73][74][75]
 
The only part of that sentence i take issue with is 'always'. Few things having to do with human behavior can be described in absolutes: all/none; always/never.

I would also ask if you distinguish between 'conditions' and healthy self protective boundaries regardless of gender. If more people knew how to set and maintain the latter fewer would find themselves stuck in toxic or outright abusive relationships
Yes I do; conditional love and healthy self-protective boundaries are not the same thing. Everyone (if I may use the term ;)) expects their partner to be loving.

It's a fact that, for women, dating is risky, even potentially deadly. And marriage is risky for both genders. There's the likelihood that you don't know your partner as well as you think you do, but even after living with them for years, marriage can change them. It didn't meet their expectations, suddenly they feel trapped or they become jealous when they weren't before; marriage can trigger all kinds of buried issues.

But the conditions I was thinking about include the man's earning potential, his level of energy and/or ambition, how many friends he's willing to cut out of his life, the amount of time he spends with her, whether or not he remembers dates on the calendar that are significant to her, how much sports he watches on TV, whether or not he concedes their arguments to her, and much, much more.

Some of those conditions are reasonable. Many are not. And I contend (non-aggressively) that, speaking from experience, which I estimate is pretty vast, the average normal man's love is far less conditional than the average normal woman's. And maybe that's not the woman's fault. Maybe it isn't in her nature, but in the culture of young girls instead.

I can't even tell you how much I hated my daughter's "emo phase," but I lived with it, and through it, and, between periods of silent panic and emotional exhaustion, I was as supportive as I knew how to be. But I thank my lucky stars she turned out wonderfully, regardless.
 
C'mon @Alligator Rob. That's all you've got over 2,100 years?

Women do murder their own children from time to time but far less frequently than men murdering wives, partners and occasionally their children. Except for terrorists, I've never heard of women entering a school intent on shooting lots of children. There was that incident in India a few years back but nothing since that I can recall.
 
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It is God's plan.
Proverbs 16:9
The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.
 
Why do you think all [most] the mass shooters are men and not women?

I can’t imagine there being a single or simple answer to this question. I’m no expert, but maybe there are some clues in the society around us.

Society treats the genders differently; parents for the most part raise boys differently to girls – whether parents are prepared to admit it or not. Society as a whole raise boys differently to girls.; schools seem to raise boys differently to girls in some ways. Have you spoken to & treated your children differently depending on whether they are boys or girls. Have you expected them to act differently? Have you expected them to have different responsibilities; have you told them as much? The 'world' of a boy is different to the world of a girl.

It seems that generally men, or boys, are often socialised to be more aggressive, more dominant, more competitive than women, whether we like it or agree with it or not.

I see parents of both sexes in part encourage boys to suppress their emotions, or so it seems (to man up – be a man – come on, you’re not a girl). They may then not have as many outlets to express their feelings as women might do. Could this then over time lead to a build-up of anger or frustration in some boys & men, which then may eventually result in violence to some degree – depending on what other factors might also be present at the time?

The parents that don’t say these things to their boys may as well be saying it to them by the subconscious expressions in the parents faces. Facial communication to a child can be a powerful thing! It can often say more to a child than words can. I should know, I used to be a child. How many people here used to be a child and have forgotten what it was like? How many parents are making the same mistakes thair own parents might have made.

Have we socialised our boys to suppress their emotions and not show vulnerability? Might this then make it difficult for a minority of men to cope with certain difficulties? Especially when other factors come into play, such as a mental illness; personality disorders; depression; substance abuse. Some with a sense of feeling marginalised perhaps – not coming up to societies expectation of a man? Have we brought up our son’s to be the protectors & defenders of their eventual families? Is this what society expects or demands?

Or could the answer to the original question just be, “Because men have a *****”?

What are the stats in the USA – as a percentage how many men own a gun compared to women? Maybe there is a significant percentage difference – someone please tell me if you know, and why that might be?

In part perhaps the question should also include, why are mass shooters so prevalent in the US compared to other countries.


EDIT: it looks like the ealier, "Because men have a *****" comment posted by someone has been removed?
 
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There’s been big advances in brain science and brain mapping in the past decade. Men’s brains are different physically, chemically and electrically from women’s. Most men are born with fewer communication brain cells than women and some are born without the brain cells dealing with love and remorse.

The male brain is bathed in testosterone and the female brain in estrogen. Most male prison inmates have elevated testosterone levels. Like everything in nature, there are a few stragglers at the end of every spectrum that don’t fit the norm, and a few people are born with the brain characteristics of the opposite sex.

In the case of mass shooters, I suspect there’s elevated testosterone combined with lack of brain cells dealing with remorse. But society and upbringing may play some role in that all the men with lack of love and remorse don't become criminals. Some become doctors, lawyers and business executives because they've become accustomed to the good life and wouldn't like prison accomodations. .
 

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