What's the best way to get a man to like you at age 53

Well, I have two available granddaughters and one is “looking”, plus she grew up living in a tent in a forest beside a stream. Really off grid till social service scooped the children up and my daughter adopted her. Seems like a good match for both of them. 😂

Except my granddaughter is a “user”. Can’t introduce her to anyone.
 
win231 said:
I've chatted with a few women who are turned on by a man in uniform.
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They need to pick a different uniform. It seems that in today's society, most police uniforms have a target on the back. At last count, I read that 39 police officers in the U.S. have been feloniously killed so far this year.
 
911 said:
They need to pick a different uniform. It seems that in today's society, most police uniforms have a target on the back. At last count, I read that 39 police officers in the U.S. have been feloniously killed so far this year.
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"39 police officers in the U.S. have been killed so far this year?" That pales in comparison to the number of non police officers killed so far this year. A police officer has one of the safest jobs in the world. In fact, statistically, a store clerk has a much-riskier job.

In 2013, out of approximately 900,000 sworn officers, just 100 died from a job-related injury. That's about 11.1 per 100,000, or a rate of 0.01%.

Policing doesn't even make it into the top 10 most dangerous American professions. Logging has a fatality rate 11 times higher, at 127.8 per 100,000. Fishing: 117 per 100,000. Pilot/flight engineer: 53.4 per 100,000. It's twice as dangerous to be a truck driver as a cop—at 22.1 per 100,000.

Exaggeration is impressive.......to the ignorant.
 
win231 said:
"39 police officers in the U.S. have been killed so far this year?" That pales in comparison to the number of non police officers killed so far this year. A police officer has one of the safest jobs in the world. In fact, statistically, a store clerk has a much-riskier job.

In 2013, out of approximately 900,000 sworn officers, just 100 died from a job-related injury. That's about 11.1 per 100,000, or a rate of 0.01%.

Policing doesn't even make it into the top 10 most dangerous American professions. Logging has a fatality rate 11 times higher, at 127.8 per 100,000. Fishing: 117 per 100,000. Pilot/flight engineer: 53.4 per 100,000. It's twice as dangerous to be a truck driver as a cop—at 22.1 per 100,000.

Exaggeration is impressive.......to the ignorant.
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You are so harsh at times, lighten up. I knew I should have encouraged my husband to be a logger, 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣
 
Knight said:
I'm pretty sure if you looked like this you wouldn't be here asking. At only two years older that shouldn't be a problem.

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-bikini-photo-age-51-165646121.html
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I may not understand. No man ever talks to you? I talk to men every week, grocery store clerks, mostly. But also neighbors and this young guy who walks his dog every day, couple of the neighbors sons, grandsons. I remember someone else posted the same thing almost.

She posted there were only fat old woman gossips to talk to and she did not like to talk to them. She wanted to talk to a man. 😂. Whatever for? Since I am a fat old woman, I thought, well, alrighty then. I do not gossip though. In order to gossip you have to have something to gossip about.

However, in my experience men like a woman who is doormat, a woman who will cater to their every need and whim. You might try this. Men on here will disagree, but to them I said, this is MY EXPERIENCE with men. I don’t know about others.
 
Bonnie said:
People sign on to the forum, say something to get a response ... then disappear.
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Try not to judge too harshly. Sometimes folks get desperate and think something is a good idea, then rethink later. I'd be willing to bet she knows how to meet men but has been frustrated in her attempts and needed to say it out loud. Perhaps she'll return to the forum and clarify.
 
Aneeda72 said:
However, in my experience men like a woman who is doormat, a woman who will cater to their every need and whim. You might try this. Men on here will disagree, but to them I said, this is MY EXPERIENCE with men. I don’t know about others.
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The best relationships of my life have been with men who liked me for my independence and the workings of my mind. I dumped those who wanted doormats. I'd rather be alone than with them. So I was for a while. My husband wanted a woman who was self-actualized. He still does. I am.
 
Phoenix said:
The best relationships of my life have been with men who liked me for my independence and the workings of my mind. I dumped those who wanted doormats. I'd rather be alone than with them. So I was for a while. My husband wanted a woman who was self-actualized. He still does. I am.
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My husband wouldn’t even understand what self-actualized means or supportive either except in terms of money. I know I asked him about this a couple of decades ago. 😂
 
There are some people who post on sites to make a connection. The picture may or may not even be real.

Other post for a reaction and never return. Others may just realize that the site is not really what they expected.
 
Aneeda72 said:
However, in my experience men like a woman who is doormat, a woman who will cater to their every need and whim. You might try this. Men on here will disagree, but to them I said, this is MY EXPERIENCE with men. I don’t know about others.
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Men attracted to doormats are most likely LVM (low value men). High value men seek their equals, they don't control nor want to be controlled.

Women who know their worth shouldn't fall for men looking for 'slaves'. We teach people how to treat us (and vice versa) so let's make ourselves respectable and valuable to be treated right.

IMO, of course.
 

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