Huh? Well thought out? feywon's reply, "get a grip on your prejudices" was directed toward
@senior chef in post #254, and I'm not defending him. But what about your own prejudices toward Christians, feywon? And judging us as "patriarchal BS oppression"?? If you had read the New Testament you would know all the answers to your questions. But I'll answer them in a short version.
I'm sorry to hear you have so much anger and animosity toward Christians of today. Maybe this will help...
This thread is not about "the history of the world". It's not about the Old Testament even. It's about now...today. You said "Christians
continue to be guilty of patriarchal BS". Are you talking about the Pope? I'm not Catholic but...So What if they want a leader they all agree on? If someone doesn't like it they can pick a different church. That's the beauty of many different churches...we all can worship how we choose.
Are you talking about how God created man to be physically stronger and expected to be the leader of the household in the Old Testament? And women were meant to nurture, heal, to have children at a time when it was necessary to populate the earth. When a husband and wife argue about a household decision and no side is a winning then someone has to end up making a decision. It was to facilitate peace, harmony, and order. It was to keep the family together. It wasn't in the 10 Commandments. It's not a requirement to get to heaven.
There is one chapter in the NT that admonishes women in the Church of Corinth to be silent...it's not oppression when read in context. It was because they were gossiping and being loud which was disruptive in the church and a reason for using men as the church leaders as well. You have to agree that many (not all) women are more into gossip and being catty than men. It wasn't oppression of women. It was natural consequences.
Christians of today are using the New Testament as a guide for becoming more Christ-like each and every day. If they aren't trying then they aren't obeying God.
feywon, you said, "...will someone please explain when anyone starts citing all the abuses and atrocities committed by Christians the response is always---'Oh, well that's not MY brand of Christianity' or 'That's not
real or
all Christians'."
It's because the Bible is crystal clear, "By their fruits ye shall know them". It further says if a "christian" sins the same sin over and over and doesn't repent, then "They will say Lord Lord and I will know them not".