This has gotten ridiculous, and everyone has their opinion on whether these mass shootings are due to guns, mental illness or the lack of fortifying public places. I will keep my opinion to myself, but hopefully there will be some modicum of movement amongst our legislators in the White House. I've been hopeful in the past. Not so much now. Voting may be the only way to change this.
I was at our local mall last year when a mentally disturbed man was beating a skateboard on the floor and the emergency announcements started to go off. It was thought to be an active shooter situation. Everyone fled and I witnessed people being trampled as everyone tried to leave. I met a mother and daughter from out of town who were trying to find their way back to the parking garage from outside the mall and helped them get there.
We have become so fearful of gun violence in this country that even loud noises trigger us all. Again, this has become ridiculous.
Man whose daughter was injured during evacuation at NorthPark Center describes what they went through
DALLAS - Thousands of people were terrified at NorthPark Center on Memorial Day when police said a man used his skateboard to make a noise that sounded like gunfire.
Now, a man whose 3-year-old daughter was injured during the stampede is speaking out about what he believes could’ve been handled better.
"The sirens went off, screaming, and then everybody runs at once," Daniel Gearner said.
Gearner’s daughter was trampled while people were running away from what turned out to be false call of an active shooter at NorthPark Center.
"And it was just like a complete stampede," he said. "She was screaming, crying."
Her head, eye, and neck were bruised and bloodied.
Looking back, mall-goers didn’t know the reported active shooter was actually a mentally disturbed man clanking a skateboard and then making hand gestures like he had a gun.
"You don’t know what the experience is like until it happens to you," Gearner said.
Nearly a week later, Gearner reflected on ways he could’ve been more prepared to keep his family safe.
"In the moment, you can’t even really see what’s happening around you, you’re just freaking out," he explained.
Gearner said he first heard sirens.
He didn’t immediately take action. He feels those 20-30 seconds cost him valuable time.
And by the time he picked his daughter up to run for safety, there was mass hysteria.
"So much just pushing and shoving," he recalled.
They were each knocked to the ground twice by people rushing from behind.
"I didn’t even have a chance to see is she OK, is she conscious, is she bleeding, none of that," he said. "It was, I’ve got to make it to the exit and out the door and make sure we make it out alive."
Making things worse, his phone fell out of pocket. His wife, who was locked down in a dressing room, couldn’t reach them for 45 minutes.
"You don’t even know what’s happening around you," he added.
Eventually, they were reunited and learned there was no shooter.
Still, Gearner is taking this opportunity to warn people to have a plan and immediately take action if ever in a situation like this.
Or one that isn’t a false call could prove to be worse.
"I think I would just head to the doors as soon as I thought maybe there’s a chance there could be something wrong," Gearner said. "You know that you have to do everything to get her out alive."