SifuPhil
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Yes they are blanket statements. I don't believe any psychologically healthy human being does not desire love.
So an emotionally stoic person would be considered psychologically unhealthy? By what standard? Certainly not by the DSM ...
First off, people have been confusing need, want and love since Adam and Eve. Much of what we view as "love" nowadays is often one of the other two.
Second, are you saying that the monks who choose to live their lives in isolation, or at the very least in the company of like-minded brothers and sisters, are mentally bent?
Finally, if as the original article claims "We are all One", how does that explain the actions of so many animal species that definitely do NOT show "love"? If we are truly all connected, how can it be that one group shows love and the other does not?
Love is nothing more than a steamy mix of chemicals - oxytocin, dopamine, pheromones, estrogen and testosterone. Everything else is the work of poets. We as a society have bought into all of the fantasies that have been woven about love, but that's all they are - fantasies and a few bucks worth of chemicals.