Hi Honey. This is may help you as it has helped me. My parents gravesite is a 21 hour drive away but I manage to visit often. What I do is go to google earth. Put in the address of the cemetery then go to the gravesite and zoom in. This is better than no visits. Let me know how you make out using this method. Enjoy your day, FrostieIdeally, I'd like to be buried in a type of 'green' cemetery that I've read about that wraps a body in a fungus-imbued shroud that helps recycle the body, and buries it and plants a tree on the plot.
But I haven't arranged anything, it seems like cremation is the simplest option, after my father died my mom had him cremated and at the same time she paid for her own future cremation, and it made life so easy when she died. My parents already had cemetery plots and I think headstones too (I am bad, I have never gone to the cemetery because it is a couple hours away).