I didn't know about the ACE test so just tried it, I got a 3, but I feel that the questions focus too much on physical abuse ,,, sure it's harmful both physically and mentally, but emotional neglect takes a mighty toll on a child too.
Both my parents were what's described as 'stoic', never showed any emotion, no hugs, words of endearment etc altho' I did well at school and I think now that I was always looking for something to make them show that I was worthy,
I find my past just too shameful to discuss, many,many failed relationships until I met and married my 2nd husband, a good and kind man who died too soon.
Now, I have only one friend and am almost a recluse, I just don't trust anyone and altho' I'd love to meet new people, I'm paranoid that if I like someone, that they'll use me in some way ... pathetic!!!