I was having a conversation about assisted living facilities some years back with my brother's then-GF. She said that about 15 years earlier her grandmother had become financially and physically unable to continue living independently. She wanted to move in with one of her children's families, but none had the space or inclination to have her do so. The relationship with this GM was strong and generally positive.
Finally, the adult children got together and found a beautiful nearby Assisted Living facility. They moved GM in. Despite her original resistance she quickly began to thrive there. She joined in on the activities, made many friends, and lived another 11 years before passing away. Her kids paid the tab to keep her there.
So I said to my brother's GF, "I guess it all worked out well then, yes?"
She replied, "My Grandmother never spoke to any of us again. We knew she was doing well because our family paid the bills. We'd drop off whatever she needed. While checking on her we'd see her laughing, playing bingo, doing exercises, and so forth, but she never said another word to us."
So there's that.