[FONT="]Can religion make you wise? Does it take a spiritual or mystical experience to deliver wisdom? A researcher in California by the name of Dao Le was interested in this question. To find the answer, he studied a large group of Americans. Within this group, he isolated those who claimed to have had mystical or spiritual experiences as the result of their faith practices. He found that only a portion of the group had become wiser. Those who’d succeeded in developing wisdom had taken time to reflect upon the experience. They’d also integrated the spiritual event, or events, into their established values. Dissimilarly, those who’d had a mystical or spiritual experience but simply used it for bragging rights had missed the opportunity to become wise. [/FONT]
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[FONT="]The moral of this story probably doesn’t need to be stated. Humility and introspection appear to be key to the development of wisdom. These characteristics are mentioned repeatedly in sacred literature throughout the world. [/FONT]
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[FONT="]Religious practice can be a cultural activity, a habit, an excuse to socialize, superstition, the result of social pressure, or a profound spiritual experience. Speaking for myself, my religious practice has featured elements of all the above. Religion and spirituality themselves can lead separate lives under the same steeple or synagogue roof. Within a lifetime, you might wander back and forth, experiencing a range of thoughts and feelings about religion. One day you might be ecstatic, and within a week, completely bored. You might change faiths. You might leave altogether and never return, yet still remember the stuff that made sense. Your religion, if you have one, is like the elementary school you attended. That’s where you received your foundational knowledge. It’s the basic stuff. Without it, you’ll need to scrounge for material before you begin framing wisdom.[/FONT]
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[FONT="]An example of wisdom teaching from the Judeo-Christian tradition is the story of King Solomon and his approach to conflict resolution. In this story, t[/FONT][FONT="]wo women were arguing over a newborn baby. Both had recently given birth, but one had rolled over in the night and suffocated her child. When Solomon came upon them, they were arguing over the surviving infant. One woman accused the other of having stolen her child in the night. Solomon proposed a solution: he would take his sword and cut the child in half so that both mothers could have a portion. One mother relented immediately, crying, “No! Let her take the child!” It was to this mother that Solomon awarded the infant. He knew that the true mother would rather surrender her child than see it killed.[/FONT]
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[FONT="]Buddhists in search of wisdom draw inspiration from the Buddha`s spiritual path. [/FONT][FONT="]To him, wisdom came from understanding the true nature of reality.[/FONT][FONT="] He taught that wisdom was strengthened through compassion. Yet from his point of view, empathy didn`t actually exist. To the Buddha, wisdom came from being able to both feel empathy and to free oneself from the illusion of the world. [/FONT]
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[FONT="]Those who follow the teachings of Confucius know that the characteristics he commended included respect for one’s parents, refinement, sincerity, simplicity, and “ren,” which translates to humanity. He preached a version of what westerners know as the Golden Rule. Confucius said, “what you do not wish for yourself, do not impose on others.” [/FONT]
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[FONT="]As religion plays a lesser part in the lives of many during the 21[SUP]st[/SUP] century, role models and inspirations outside of faith must be sought. If you were asked by someone younger – for example, by a 15-year-old – how to develop wisdom without any spiritual or religious practice, what would you advise? [/FONT]
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[FONT="]The moral of this story probably doesn’t need to be stated. Humility and introspection appear to be key to the development of wisdom. These characteristics are mentioned repeatedly in sacred literature throughout the world. [/FONT]
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[FONT="]Religious practice can be a cultural activity, a habit, an excuse to socialize, superstition, the result of social pressure, or a profound spiritual experience. Speaking for myself, my religious practice has featured elements of all the above. Religion and spirituality themselves can lead separate lives under the same steeple or synagogue roof. Within a lifetime, you might wander back and forth, experiencing a range of thoughts and feelings about religion. One day you might be ecstatic, and within a week, completely bored. You might change faiths. You might leave altogether and never return, yet still remember the stuff that made sense. Your religion, if you have one, is like the elementary school you attended. That’s where you received your foundational knowledge. It’s the basic stuff. Without it, you’ll need to scrounge for material before you begin framing wisdom.[/FONT]
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[FONT="]An example of wisdom teaching from the Judeo-Christian tradition is the story of King Solomon and his approach to conflict resolution. In this story, t[/FONT][FONT="]wo women were arguing over a newborn baby. Both had recently given birth, but one had rolled over in the night and suffocated her child. When Solomon came upon them, they were arguing over the surviving infant. One woman accused the other of having stolen her child in the night. Solomon proposed a solution: he would take his sword and cut the child in half so that both mothers could have a portion. One mother relented immediately, crying, “No! Let her take the child!” It was to this mother that Solomon awarded the infant. He knew that the true mother would rather surrender her child than see it killed.[/FONT]
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[FONT="]Buddhists in search of wisdom draw inspiration from the Buddha`s spiritual path. [/FONT][FONT="]To him, wisdom came from understanding the true nature of reality.[/FONT][FONT="] He taught that wisdom was strengthened through compassion. Yet from his point of view, empathy didn`t actually exist. To the Buddha, wisdom came from being able to both feel empathy and to free oneself from the illusion of the world. [/FONT]
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[FONT="]Those who follow the teachings of Confucius know that the characteristics he commended included respect for one’s parents, refinement, sincerity, simplicity, and “ren,” which translates to humanity. He preached a version of what westerners know as the Golden Rule. Confucius said, “what you do not wish for yourself, do not impose on others.” [/FONT]
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[FONT="]As religion plays a lesser part in the lives of many during the 21[SUP]st[/SUP] century, role models and inspirations outside of faith must be sought. If you were asked by someone younger – for example, by a 15-year-old – how to develop wisdom without any spiritual or religious practice, what would you advise? [/FONT]
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