I used to love my own company and didn't need external noise from media or phones - now, I have wifi running 24-7 with news, weather, Netflix. If it went down, I think I would lose my mind. I have also considered answering those unknown callers, just to have a dialog with another human.I can't stand a quiet house. The only time this house is quiet is when I'm ready to go to sleep. I have the radio or the TV on all the time. A quiet house is too lonely for me.
Hmmm - I saw on the news a bit ago that some people were actually getting paid to do just that! I could use the income!@Empty or mess with them for the entertainment portion of your day.
My mother is like this. She and her books have always been fine companions even when my father was alive. To an extent I am like this too.I love being surrounded by books!
What do you read now?I love being surrounded by books!
I will not admit that today I caught myself doing that too sad... estranged daughters.I live out in the country too... Have friends who drop in now and then... But I also talk to myself, especially when I am out in my shop... Been caught a few times, But they all know me by now... Have some pretty great conversations... Also, talk to myself when I am out cutting the grass on the tractor...
You didn't get an answe. He said he was an amateur radio operator which involves receiving and broadcasting . Just guessing but it might have something to do with radio interference.@Pete
Why are you not allowed to operate your radio in Texas?
Wonder how your doing. How is your Lab?I know that silence and fuzzybuddy it is hard to deal with. Ever since that day on December 12, 2018 when my husband was tragically killed on the job as he was a Police officer and I realized he was never coming home and then shortly after that my youngest daughter moving out I have that silence other than the company of my Yellow Lab Finn who is a godsend. I do not know if you are able to get a pet, but having one has helped me out a lot. Last year this time I certainly was not thinking I would be living alone even though my husband and I knew my youngest would be leaving the nest. I never thought my husband would have lost his life in the line of duty. It is hard fuzzybuddy and if you can get a pet I would highly recommend it.
Or perhaps he is missing the voice of his beloved.
I am too. But I was told my noise sensitivity is because of my anxiety.Being a real "country boy" I love the quiet places out in the country. Love to hear the birds. Don't like the terrible music in the malls. Don't like TV at all unless I am watching my ROKU or great shows like "Gunsmoke" or "Rifleman". Don't like traffic either. Guess I am noise sensitive.
Yeah, ignorance is not a good thing. I worked in retail sporting goods & was familiar with Tourette's, having read up on it. A customer who had Tourette's came in & my co-workers immediately started to make fun of him. I told the customer (loud enough for everyone to hear): "Just ignore them; they're morons." After I helped the customer with the sale & paperwork (he was buying a firearm), my co-workers let me know how angry they were at me. I just laughed. They asked, "What the hell is so funny?" I said, "Your stupidity."I am accustomed to the silence. I have spent my entire life never having people in my life really. It started when I was young. The kids at school didn't understand my Tourette Syndrome so I was socially shunned. Later in life I had difficulties playing well with others so I secluded myself. After my 2nd divorce and a couple boyfriends later, I still had no companionship or friendship to show for it. I slowly began to isolate myself from everyone. Then I worked for a man who hurt me so badly emotionally that I withdrew even farther. I've never really recovered and I have found solace and safety in being alone. Every time I reach out to others they give me a reason to withdraw again. No one seems very interested in taking the time to get to know me or spending any time with me. Please note that I'm not complaining. I have just pretty much accepted the fact that I am going to be alone for the rest of my life. I've embraced it. I'm learning to enjoy it. I hate the noise of life and all the incessant jibber jabber that goes on. Doors slamming, music blaring, engines revving, people just jabbering away all day long about nothing. The racket at work. It's nice to come home to the peace and quiet and be able to adjust the volume of life at home. In my 50s now and this has been taking place little by little since I was a little girl. I have learned to keep myself busy and find things that bring me joy. If it's too quiet and you like soft music...find a way to make that happen.
For over a year, I was in and out of hospitals, care facilities,and 1 home. When I go to my local ER, I can point and say,"I've been in that cubicle, that one, that one, that one, this one's my favorite". But now I'm home. What bothers me is the silence. In all those previous places, people were running around, shouting, coughing, even vomiting. Now NOTHING. I live in the sticks where you can here deer hoofs clicking on the rocks. I have to have the TV on, if I'm awake.
I remember a friend when he was a new widower, he said he loved talking to telemarketers just to have someone to talk to. While most of us won't even take those calls, he eagerly waited for them. We had to take turns to check on him every now and then to make sure he's okay.I have also considered answering those unknown callers, just to have a dialog with another human.
How did you get yourself so tiny and in that little circle? I am trying to get my picture up loaded I have no idea how you did that. You mention it took you 3 days to do it. Maybe you could send me a clue.Being a real "country boy" I love the quiet places out in the country. Love to hear the birds. Don't like the terrible music in the malls. Don't like TV at all unless I am watching my ROKU or great shows like "Gunsmoke" or "Rifleman". Don't like traffic eithebr. Guess I am noise sensitive.
Same here, but sometimes I just get a cup of coffee, breakfast, and look out the window and just listen. Listen to the quiet. It is more quiet now since the virus hit because there aren't as many cars going by early in the morning. When school starts up, if it does, we will see. Wal Mart doesn't stay open 24 hours anymore, and that is near me. I get up really early, and the silence is very welcome, then when 7 or 7:30 hits, time to turn on the news. And the dogs get up, time for a morning walk and the dogs.I can't stand the silence. I usually turn the TV on as soon as I'm awake.