I did not in any way render permission to you to feel insulted. I cannot for the life of me how you extrapolated that from what I wrote. I did say, if you chose to be insulted, so be it. I neither can stop you from being so nor tell you that you must be.
Listen Aneeda, I, in no way can empathize with these people since I've not had their problems, but I definitely do sympathize with their plight. That does not mean that I condone them breaking the law of our land. I've witnessed many terrible injustices in my long lifetime and when I knew that was wrong I did something about it. In essence, I am what is called an anti-federalist, so that when a Constitution was finally framed to meet the needs of the land along with the Bill of Rights, I then became a federalist and staunchly will defend those sacred laws to the death. I have zero tolerance for anyone who ignores same. I am not talking about minor infractions, but real felonies.
In your case, again, this is a matter of how did the baby come to be here illegally, and why was he sent back so cavalierly?
Those of us born in America hit the greatest lotto ever dealt by our Creator, for sure. I believe in helping the downtrodden and have on many occasions, but don't even try to convince me that folks attempting to walk into this country undocumented deserve to be excused. And I am speaking of those from all nations who try this. One other thing that galls me, if someone has the money, he/she will get in here without proper documentation. That is just a rotten realism and unfair all around.
As for your experience, I am sorry you went through that. And don't worry, I don't dislike or unfriend and ignore folks just because we have different opinions and see the world through different eyes.