What's With All This Sexual Harassment Stuff Going On?

Shalimar said:
Why would the negative behaviour of a few, reflect badly on all men? Many males are wonderful individuals who treat women with respect. My fiancé, Sifuphil, comes to mind, some others on this site: Pappy, Amomaly, Tnthomas, Bob from Ma. Others abound, this is just a sampling of the awesome guys on SF.
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Hey! You forget anyone?
 

Camper6 said:
But they are not laying charges. They are merely complaining now.
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HUH ? No mention of charges in my post so what are you trying to say?

I think the process is a person has to file a complaint within a certain time frame. The complaint is investigated. Filing charges comes after "IF" the allegation is proven to be true.

I don't know what motivates all of them now. Easy though to suspect the motivation when politicians are being identified.

About the sailor after Japan lost the war. Times square wasn't the nurses work place.
 
I agree that men are not good at reading female body language. All too often they miss cues that signal a negative reaction and take silence as consent or a smile as encouragement. Never having been socialised the way little girls have been, they misread women, even after years of living with one.

Women, on the other hand can read women very well. We recognise hidden emotion because we have all been there. Trust me.

I'll look for the photo again but I did enlarge it myself. That is when I picked up the tension in her leg. In that position myself I would have been rigid as a board.
 
Knight said:
HUH ? No mention of charges in my post so what are you trying to say?

I think the process is a person has to file a complaint within a certain time frame. The complaint is investigated. Filing charges comes after "IF" the allegation is proven to be true.

I don't know what motivates all of them now. Easy though to suspect the motivation when politicians are being identified.

About the sailor after Japan lost the war. Times square wasn't the nurses work place.
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Neither was it his. So are you saying nurses out of the workplace are fair game?
 
Camper6 said:
This is what women come up with for proof?

The eyes are not smiling? Post the picture again. I'll enlarge it. Admit the truth. She was doing it willingly.

I'm sorry Shalimar men are not good at 'tells' if that's what you are depending on.

It's kind of gobbledegook science.
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What picture is it you all are talking about ?
 
Camper6 said:
This is what women come up with for proof?

The eyes are not smiling? Post the picture again. I'll enlarge it. Admit the truth. She was doing it willingly.

I'm sorry Shalimar men are not good at 'tells' if that's what you are depending on.


It's kind of gobbledegook science.
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"Some" men may not be, but some are.
 
I think the exuberant sailor kissing a nurse in the euphoria of the declaration pf peace is a total red herring. He might just as likely have grabbed an old lady and swung her off the ground in a circle. Neither act would be held against him at that moment but a week later he might have been arrested for doing the same thing.

The sailor and the dancing man in this footage are expressing the same relief and joy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ij9LkYCSujg
 
Camper6 said:
This is what women come up with for proof?

The eyes are not smiling? Post the picture again. I'll enlarge it. Admit the truth. She was doing it willingly.

I'm sorry Shalimar men are not good at 'tells' if that's what you are depending on.

It's kind of gobbledegook science.
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I sincerely hope you are not suggesting to a psychologist who has worked as a profiler in the past, that her science is gobbledegook science? As for your opinion re the inability of men to read tells, I beg to differ. The profiler who trained me was male.
 
This is for Camper.

The man in this photo has his hand on a woman and her eyes and body say that it is more than OK.

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She is however a little uneasy about the cameras.
His open hand is sending a message to the photographer(s) and his face shows he is ready to defend the lady if necessary.

What do you see?
 
Camper6 said:
I doubt a jury would see it the way you do. You are making up stories. She had no obligation to sit there in the first place. That's not an advertising picture. That's an informal photo.

And by the way. I can't find the pictures anymore. They must have been deleted.
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Here is the one you are looking for

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What do you make of the older woman's expression?
 
What do I make of the older woman's expression?

How's this." I wish those two would quit fooling around and let me finish what I was working on"

And as far as your claim of her eyes? Puhleese. I enlarged it. There's nothing there that I can see what you are claiming.

And as far as claiming she is being forced or harassed? If you can see that, you're a better man than I am Gunga Din.
 
Camper6 said:
Neither was it his. So are you saying nurses out of the workplace are fair game?
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Neither was it his? Explain who the "his" is and which post you are referring to so I can make sense out of what you posted.

As for the nurse. You do know this is about work place sexual harassment. The three areas being posted about have been. Entertainment, politics. and general work places. I don't know if she filed a civil complaint with the police do you?
 
Shalimar said:
I sincerely hope you are not suggesting to a psychologist who has worked as a profiler in the past, that her science is gobbledegook science? As for your opinion re the inability of men to read tells, I beg to differ. The profiler who trained me was male.
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Snicker. Men can't even tell when a woman is faking it, if you get my drift. :playful:
 
Knight said:
Neither was it his? Explain who the "his" is and which post you are referring to so I can make sense out of what you posted.

As for the nurse. You do know this is about work place sexual harassment. The three areas being posted about have been. Entertainment, politics. and general work places. I don't know if she filed a civil complaint with the police do you?
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He's a sailor. His workplace is on a ship. The picture is famous. Ask Falcon.

And the the armed forces still overseas were not happy with what went on at home with the celebrations.
 
Warrigal said:
This is for Camper.

The man in this photo has his hand on a woman and her eyes and body say that it is more than OK.

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She is however a little uneasy about the cameras.
His open hand is sending a message to the photographer(s) and his face shows he is ready to defend the lady if necessary.

What do you see?
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Ah for craps sakes they are either waving hello or goodbye.
 
Wait. You guys are talking about the youngish woman sitting on the mans lap??? I confess I have not read the whole thread because it irritates me this new trend of yelling about something that happened 30/40 years ago and now all of a sudden they speak up. Bullcrap, says I.

Anyway...the gal sitting on the guys lap looks like a gal sitting on a guys lap..smiling at the camera. No hidden fears or whatnot. Just smiling. His hand on her thigh. Ok. Leg loose and down. Ok. Guy looks like a guy happy a gal is sitting on his lap. Lady in front looks like she is bored and wants to go back to work.

So..from what little I have read, the young lady in the pic is now screeching the guy sexually harassed her back in 1960 or something? Why didn't she speak up then??? All this is ridiculous. If you are sexually harassed, DO SOMETHING.
Well, unless you want your academy award first, or accepted $$$$ to shut up about it back then. Then it's all just AOK, right? Later on, after half a century, THEN you can scream about it with no proof but you can damn sure ruin someone's career because you kept your mouth shut.

*You as in general you*

But, I am speaking my own opinion with my own personality. Some guy did that to me, he would be talking in a girly voice. And $$$ or statues would not shut me up. But that's me.
 

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